It's not all doom and gloom- at least you avoided the hassle and expense of gifts, dates and the pressure of coping with high expectations. Take heart that there are many more single women out there in a worse situation than you agonising over why it is that they still can't get a boyfriend- that means it's the perfect time for you to land your dream girl! Here's how to get started today: 1. Become a Better Man Most men have grown up believing that money is the solution to any problems they are facing in their romantic lives. How wrong those men are! A woman will be infinitely more interested in a man who is well-read, cultured, independent, can cook, dance and has fascinating hobbies over a work-aholic who spends every last God given hour cooped up at the office squinting under the glare of artificial light at all hours.
Perhaps endeavour to take a beginner's salsa class. Try to imagine each woman as a talent scout, measuring up each guy she comes across against her list of requirements before deciding to let them in on her life: what can you bring to the table that other guys are lacking? Another advantage of this is that women you know already will begin to see positive changes in you and begin to feel more attracted to you when all you're doing is going about improving yourself without any explicit intentions. 2. Don't Get Hung-Up On One Girl Despite the musings of romantic novelists and Hollywood directors, by concentrating all of your efforts on winning over that one special girl you are actively decreasing the chances of her falling for you. This is surprising because we are taught that the more you work hard at attaining something- a better education, wealth, a better body at the gym- the more likely your chances of getting it.
When you open up totally to a woman and devote to her your every ounce of attention to her being you stopped being a challenge long ago and are incredibly unattractive. Avoid this by busying yourself and keeping your options open. Perhaps call her but don't ask her out on a date or keep a relationship that started with a sexually charged interaction strictly platonic so leaving it up to her to take things beyond a 'friendship' and into the bedroom. 3. Approach, Approach, Approach How capable are you of approaching women when you're out? Are you able to walk up to the most beautiful girl in the venue without first resorting to sinking a pint or four for Dutch Courage? A trait of men who are successful with women is a lack of hesitation when it comes to expressing interest in women they would like to get to know.
Set yourself a mission on nights out, and during the day follow a rule that you'll start a conversation with every woman you find attractive. Don't worry yourself about finding something spontaneous to say but rather just concentrate on starting an interaction of sorts. 4. Stay One Step Ahead If you find yourself out on a date with a girl and can sense that things are going exactly as planned- she's glancing at her watch every few minutes wishing it to end or taking calls on her mobile- then be sure to be the one to deliver the "Let's just be friends" line first.
This way you can amicably go your separate ways so leaving the option open that she can become a part in your social circle. Remember that most attractive women have attractive female friends and her friends will be inclined to be sociable and accepting of you if you're a friend of their friend. Group psychology dictates that as soon as one girl in a network finds you attractive- the others soon will too! 5. Try Every Avenue Try your hand at speed dating which is quickly becoming very popular. How about online dating sites? Speed dating is fantastic practice for getting onto comfortable ground with a woman who you know is single, seeking and has little option but to talk to you if only for a few minutes.
6. Be In The Right Place At The Right Time By sitting at home it is unlikely that you'll meet any attractive women. Commit to venturing out and practicing approaching women at night in bars or nightclubs.
You could join a gym, take up an evening class (yoga, cooking, salsa, French etc.) or hang out in a coffee shop. In these environments you get the chance to familiarise yourself with regulars and staff over time and this will make it easier for you to make a move. Treat this like a game or social experiment- you do not fail if you receive negative feedback- you simply have learned another lesson that will aid you in your progress.
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